Every girl wants her mother there next to her at the wedding, but make sure your mom enjoys the day, and doesn't try to control it. All too often mothers try helping by controlling what they want during the wedding, not what you want. Thats your Maid of Honors job, not moms. Make sure mom knows to just enjoy the day with you! It's not a day she has to work, its a day for her to smile and greet guests and family members on that special day!